Driving Toward a New Chapter: The Start of a Long Goodbye
Every road has its story. This one, stretching between Maine and San Diego, carries the weight of transition, the spark of new beginnings, and the threads of connection woven across thousands of miles. Leaving Maine, I’m not just heading westward; I’m bridging the gap between my past, present, and future. This isn’t merely a journey of relocation—it’s a passage through memories, reflections, and the endless potential of what’s to come.
A Farewell Breakfast That Echoes Home
Before I left Maine, there was one last indulgence to be had: breakfast at the Bayside American Cafe in Portland. Situated in a historic building, the restaurant captures the charm and character of New England. Its creaky wooden staircase and intricate moldings exude a sense of history, while its menu offers a modern twist on hearty classics.
For my final meal in Maine, I couldn’t resist the Maine Crabcake Benedict. Perfectly seasoned crab atop toasted English muffins, all smothered in velvety hollandaise—it was everything I hoped it would be. As I sat in the warm, welcoming space, I reflected on how this trip had reignited my connection to my roots. This wasn’t just breakfast; it was a symbolic send-off, a nod to the memories I’ve made and the exciting road ahead.
The Journey South: Connections That Ground Us
As I head south toward San Diego, the journey is as much about the people I’ll meet as the miles I’ll drive. This trip is a chance to deepen relationships, share moments of joy, and build memories with those who’ve shaped my life in unique ways.
One of the highlights will be meeting three friends from Wildercraft—Tolcum, Smoothie, and Redbau—in North Carolina. For years, our shared creativity and camaraderie have lived in the digital realm, but now, we’ll finally connect in person. This meeting feels like a celebration of the community we’ve built online, brought to life in the tangible world. I can already imagine the laughter and stories we’ll exchange, adding another layer to our bond.
In Atlanta, I’ll reunite with my cousin Lauren. From childhood games of hide-and-seek to shared professional paths, our connection has always been strong. Visiting her brings back memories of our grandparents’ home and the warmth of family gatherings. Seeing Lauren reminds me of the foundation family provides, even as life takes us in different directions.
Austin will bring a chance to reconnect with MK, a mentor who has profoundly influenced my career. MK’s groundbreaking work with Disney Imagineering and ABC has always inspired me, but it’s her generosity and energy that stand out the most. Our conversations are always a spark for new ideas, and I’m looking forward to catching up with her and sharing the excitement of this transitional chapter.
In Phoenix, I’ll stay with Jamal, my mom’s best friend and someone who’s been like a second family to me. Her home, filled with the aroma of her incredible Lebanese cooking, is a sanctuary of warmth and hospitality. Jamal has always been a steadfast supporter of my journey, and this visit feels like a homecoming of its own.
These connections, from lifelong family ties to friendships forged through shared experiences, are the heartbeat of this trip. They remind me that no matter where I go, I carry a piece of each person with me.
Reflections on San Diego: Lessons to Carry Forward
San Diego has been more than a city to me; it’s been a place of growth, connection, and discovery. Its sunny beaches and welcoming community have shaped who I am today. I’ll miss the vibrant LGBTQ+ scene, which is as diverse as it is supportive, and the low-key yet dynamic atmosphere that makes San Diego so unique.
But I’m not leaving these experiences behind. Instead, I’m bringing them with me to Maine, where I hope to foster similar communities. Maine’s culture may be rooted in sarcasm and practicality, but its tight-knit spirit is the perfect foundation for building something new. From Tech Coffees to creative collaborations, I envision Maine as a hub for innovation and connection, blending the best of what I’ve learned in San Diego with the richness of New England’s traditions.
Finding Grounding in Transition
Change is exhilarating, but it’s also emotional. One of the most valuable pieces of advice I’ve received came from a mentor at AJS, who reminded me to be mindful of the emotions that come with big transitions. It’s advice I’ve taken to heart, especially on this journey, where each day brings a mix of excitement, nostalgia, and anticipation.
Blogging has become a lifeline, helping me process the flood of thoughts and feelings that accompany this move. Driving offers a quiet space for reflection and planning, while staying connected with friends and family keeps me grounded. I’ve learned to take each day as it comes, focusing on small steps while keeping an eye on the bigger picture.
The Road Ahead: San Diego and Beyond
This trip is more than just a return to San Diego; it’s a chance to close one chapter and prepare for the next. Once I arrive, there’s much to do—packing, revisiting connections, and preparing for my move to Maine. I’m looking forward to spending time with friends and colleagues, sharing ideas, and laying the groundwork for future collaborations.
One idea that’s already taking shape is Maine Tech Coffees, inspired by the vibrant gatherings I attended in San Diego. These weekly meetups foster community, accountability, and innovation, and I’m excited to bring that energy to Maine. It’s a small step toward building the kind of collaborative, creative environment that I believe will thrive in my new home.
A Journey Unfinished
This journey isn’t just about getting from point A to point B—it’s about the people, places, and ideas that shape us along the way. Each stop, each conversation, each moment of reflection is a thread in the larger story I’m weaving. And while this chapter is nearing its end, the story is far from over.
As I head west, my heart is full of gratitude for the past and excitement for the future. I’m reminded that life’s greatest adventures often come from embracing change, connecting with others, and staying open to possibility. This road trip is just the beginning of something much larger—a journey of growth, connection, and endless potential. Stay tuned, because the best is yet to come.
Who are the people or communities that inspire you the most, and how do you keep those connections alive no matter where life takes you?
2 thoughts on “Driving Toward a New Chapter: The Start of a Long Goodbye”
Morning Jared, sending good wishes for a safe journey.
I just wanted to say if you have a moment in Phoenix, I’d love to meet for a visit and maybe a bite or beverage. For that matter, if it turns out you need another place to stay , I have tons of room..and I’m not far from all the major highways and byways. Sound’s crazy but I’m at the intersections of so many of the major “turns”! Funny, sounds like my life right now. Yours too!
I did plan the location as best I could when I purchased my home. I was doing a huge commute twice a week and needed the easy and quick access to all ways. It worked out ! I’m close to the airport even.
Let me know, it would be nice to meet you in person and to meet a person, with whom our mutual friend Linda, thought so highly. Obviously, time is precious and I will understand completely if it’s not a possibility.
Take care, enjoy the drone of the motor . I find it soothing and often drive for hours with just that sound! 🤣
Cheryl
Cheryl – this is such a generous and sweet offer for you to make. It has been an absolute whirlwind, and I’m afraid I won’t have the chance to see you in Phoenix today. I tried, but I have to get to Chandler by this evening and I’ve got a bit of work to do. I hope we do get to meet in the near future, and I’m so grateful for your support and generosity.